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7 Marks Of Emotional Maturity #5
A fifth criteria of emotional maturity is the capacity to relate to other people in a consistent manner with mutual satisfaction and helpfulness.
Some children live in such an unpredictable family situation that they never know how their parent is going to react from moment to moment.
What brings a good-natured response one hour brings a frightening tirade the next.
Being consistent in the way we interact with our children (as well as others) is a mark of emotional maturity.
To be inconsistent is to deny our children basic guidelines for learning what is acceptable and unacceptable, appropriate and inappropriate behavior.
Going a step further, relating to others in a consistent manner should be consistent in the sense that it results in satisfaction and helpfulness to both parties, instead of being a relationship where only one person's needs are met at the expense of another's.
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